Energetic alternatives to ejaculation & taking control
As men we should have the choice of when we would like to ejaculate, or not. Ejaculation is not essential and when learn to take control yourself, you will be able to expand your orgasms throughout your body. Dr. Angela Shen explains: ‘if you draw energy up before and during your orgasm it will be more intense and last longer. You will also be less tired afterwards.” Circulating and controlling ejaculation allows you and your partner to have ecstatic intimate experiences and lovemaking. This ability to circulate sexual energy is the basis for both transcendent sexuality and vibrant health. The Taoist tradition believe that when you ejaculate you become drained, as an average ejaculation contains 50-250 million sperm cells, if your body does not have to replenish this raw material (you) each time it is able to use this energy to strengthen your body and mind.
What are energetic alternatives to ejaculation ?
Ejaculation is when seminal fluid comes out, Orgasm is the pleasure part when you have the experience and sensations in the genitals, part or all of your body without any seminal fluid. Typically this is accompanied by contractions in / around your pelvic floor, compressing your prostate gland, etc.
Usually they happen at the same time. They don’t have to.
You can have:
- ejaculation with pleasure
- ejaculation without pleasure
- have pleasure without ejaculation
The core purpose of ejaculation control is to determine when you choose to ejaculate, or not during masturbation or an intimate experience with a partner.
Premature ejaculation is a challenge facing many men however can be managed with understanding of how to control and take charge of the ejaculation, rather than the ejaculation appearing to take control of the man.
The technique for ejaculation control can be found in many books following various traditions from Taoism & other methods from China, India, Tibet, etc. It is based on moving the aroused sexual energy from your crotch upward in your body. Doing this requires you to develop certain skills and self knowledge: an awareness of what energy is inside you, develop skills to move energy, learn about the places where the energy might go, open and unclog the relevant pathways/meridians (“circuits”) for the energy to flow through, practice the techniques to the point where you can easily do them. Learning any new technique it requires practice, and this can be a pleasurable experience during masturbation or with a partner.
I personally enjoy Mantak Chia’s many books including: The Multi Orgasmic Man, Healing Love through the Tao, and Taoist Secrets of Love are very detailed and technical, probably overly and assume you have already opened your microcosmic orbit and undertaken significant amount of meditation, Yoga, qigong or bodywork practice.
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